É MELHOR SER ALEGRE QUE SER TRISTE…?

By 25 de abril de 2017 março 19th, 2019 #PapoReto

É MELHOR SER ALEGRE QUE SER TRISTE…?  

Lembro-me de uma fala de uma professora minha. Eu tinha 5 anos. Dentre outras aberrações que ela fazia comigo, disse-me um dia, ao me ver de canto, sem brincar com os amigos: criança não fica triste. Criança só pode ser feliz! 

Esse é o grande entrave na relação de adultos com crianças. Fomos educados para nos relacionarmos com a infância sempre a partir de uma perspectiva feliz. Pureza, alegria, curiosidade são palavras e conceitos colados à criança. Tudo o que se opõe a isso é ruim. Então, criança não pode ficar triste, não pode silenciar, se entediar? Errado! Ser humano é ser inteiro. E ser inteiro é ser tudo o que se pode ser, inclusive, ser triste.  

Quando ficamos tristes, gostamos de colo, acolhida, atenção, silêncio. Por que somos incapazes de acolher a tristeza de uma criança? Por que sempre a distraímos com coisas externas?  

Permita, abrace, acolha. Isso não é alimentar um comportamento. A melhor forma de fazer uma tristeza passar é deixá-la chegar e sair.  

#PapoReto #🔵🔵🔵  

Marcelo Cunha Bueno é educador há mais de 20 anos, inspirado pelo chão da Escola, especialista em desenvolvimento infantil. 

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