CRIANÇA NÃO NAMORA

By 21 de fevereiro de 2017 abril 8th, 2019 #PapoReto

Esse tema me causa arrepios e irritações. Quantas e quantas vezes vemos famílias orgulhosas de suas crianças terem namorados e namoradas tão precocemente? Vamos lá: criança não namora, quem namora é adulto. Criança brinca, joga, corre, faz chover, dança… criança faz coisa de criança. Namorar não é coisa de/para criança. Criança ama. Isso, sim. Gosta de expressar o amor, muitas vezes, como vê seus pais, suas mães fazerem em casa. Mas isso não é namoro, é amor. Amor de criança. Quando eu era professor, uma mãe trouxe flores para a namorada de seu filho. Fez ele entregar para a menina. Nenhum dos dois, de 4 anos, entendia. As mães riram. Daí, na hora da saída, as mães dos filhos e filhas solteiras resolveram trazer presentes para os pares formados na cabeça delas. A sorte dessas crianças é que a reunião com o grupo era nesse dia. Falei sobre a imposição de gênero imposta desde pequenos, contei do que criança precisa de verdade para ser criança, falei do valor das amizades na infância, conversamos sobre nossas projeções para as nossas crianças, sobre como a televisão as adultiza. E elas juntaram os cacos, pegaram de volta seus presentes e foram cuidar de suas crianças, como deve ser. 

#PapoReto #🔵🔵🔵  

Marcelo Cunha Bueno é educador há mais de 20 anos, inspirado pelo chão da Escola, especialista em desenvolvimento infantil. 

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